Sort out your vocabulary
Re-invent your dictionary
Cross out the words that scare me and don't...
Call things by their names.
"Smile when you answer the phone; this will give the caller a good impression."
"When you put your blush wear a smile to define your cheekbones."
"Every morning in the corridor of your workplace greet people with a broad smile. This will help you start a beautiful day."
"If people try to annoy you, just smile at their face; they will understand that their efforts to spoil your day are useless."
"If you want to contradict someone, no matter how upsetting what they said is, express your opposing opinion with a smile. This will make them more receptive to your arguments."
"Smile when you take a picture. This will help you look beautiful and lively." .....
It Seems that we have turned smiles into a mere accessory we can put at strategically calculated moments.
Do we give real smiles any value at all???